Please leave a comment below and let us know. Photo by: Martina Photography. How do I get through the death of my father my wife leaving me and losing my home and 2 dogs and a cat all at once??? A year ago I was happy and had a great life and now suddenly at 59 I have lost everything I am in emotional pain everyday and pray to God to give me peace. I wish I could tell you how to handle all that.. If you have someone to talk to.. Detachment is the mantra. Nothing is constant but change in this world.
Times change circumstances change and people change. I n this world nothing is yours. Bad times change for good and good times never stay for ever so keep faith in god as he has a plan for everyone. Just keep faith. So sorry to hear of your losses. I was forced recently to rehome two of my beautiful dogs due to a threatening neighbour and am in enormous pain. I have had many losses in the past, but yours are all at once so that is very difficult.
I hope you have some good friends to talk to and also see a counsellor or psychologist. I am finding the impermanence of life difficult to come to terms with at present but it seems to be a lesson we have to learn..
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I hope you get through and come to peace and acceptance. I can really empathise with you. Point 3 is my problem, I always expect things to turn around exactly I want to, but slowly I have learned to face this fact, that there is nothing like magic, we have to work hard to get exactly what we want in our life. Good article.
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All i can say with my resent experience is …When one door of opportunity closes, God gives another and definitely the better one …. I do agree life is not about a smooth ride, it is indeed your Karmas that get you places …. Thanks for this wonderful article. I feel burdened in life because of the huge emotional baggage I am carrying on my shoulders.
I think a lot about could have beens. But that past is not coming back. I took some ugly decisions some bad ones and some crazy ones too. After reading this beautiful article I have come to realize how much I reminisce my past. My presents good too. I think I should not forget how blessed I am in my present moment. To hell with the Past.
A very nice article. I really needed this post with all that I am suffering today. All the 9 points mentioned above are so good and I am going to adopt them in my life.
Thank you so much. Very well written. The teachings of Lord Buddha and The Gita also talk on the same lines. We alone our own masters and our own slaves. We are the absolute owners of our mindrabnd soul. If we think in a peaceful and positive manner then we will emit peaceful and positive vibrations.
Its all in our hands. Creation and then destruction and then creation is the only truth. Birth and death, Day and Night and then day again etc…. Thanks for this wonderful article, To be peaceful means to have thoughts filled with peace and power. At first, I was imagining myself with my loved ones during bad times. The article here is just one thing that helps us. Thanks guys. I am unaware of myself ever being in a state of peace of mind, however I believe if you remain who you are, ignoring every negative aspect people imply, you will obtain a state of peace.
This article helped quite much. Thanks for this. Negative things do not exist, their just the absence of something positive. Thank you so much for this advice. Just by reading what you guys have written here is making me feel so much stronger in this current pathetic situation I am in. I wish you all the best. Dear Angel, I guess meditation helps to calm the mind and lend inner strength to brace against the situation. Hi Angel, thanks for the words. They really did rekindle something positive in me.
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Yes, every thing is going to be alright…. Thanks this is great information. I am struggling with loneliness as single dad of great 10 year old son but been alone most of my life. Hit about each biz goal I have set but personal life has been a wreck. Greg, I know how you feel.. I get what you are talking about. Thank very much for such a great lines. These lines inspire me to do something fruitful in my life. Thanks for waking it up! Thanks for this article as it is most reassuring to rediscover ways to regain peace in the midst of agitated feelings.
Peace and light will always rise again once you sit with the pain and sift through the debris to arrive at a point of deep calm and inner bliss. It is so true that most of us struggle to regain a sense of who we originally are beneath all the wounds and disturbing interactions that form a cloud over our perceptions of self.
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To uncover the original self is akin to sand-blasting all the faulty programming that has marred and scarred access to our true self. At our core we remain pure light and pure love and only we can regain this oceanic feeling by sifting through the rubble that has blocked access to this fact. Breath in and regain connection to this inner point of serenity: to me it appears a serene ocean with a sun slowly rising to engulf the sky. Muse on what you love, find a quiet place to reconnect with yourself and ground yourself, absorb yourself in nature and memories of who and what you love, and feel free to express whatever rises until you find the body feels lighter and freer.
Learn to trust that there are others on a similar path who you will find along the way who can serve as anchors and mirror your potential to both love and be loved without shame or fear. Soak up the memory of such encounters and use them as precious gems to rid your sense of being all alone and abandoned by the world. Slowly we shift from dark moods and dark places to an expansive understanding that all of us are connected with a higher source of consciousness that provides grace and a reservoir of inner peace.
Forgive the past to embrace the future with greater clarity and ease. Last night was the first time I stayed up all night crying my eyes out bc I was in so much pain. At about 4a. It really helped to put my mind at ease, everyone has such great comments. I woke up this morning and read everything all over again. The thought of someone not caring about you who you love can really bring someone down. Such true words, especially when it comes to having children.
Thank you, I appreciated reading your words today as I searched for some inspiration on a difficult day. Now I am going to spend some time thinking about and finding the silver lining brought to my life by my unique child now a teenager instead of focusing on what he will miss out on, have difficulty with, what I have lost or adapted to. I have read your posts on Facebook for a while now. I recently lost my soul mate and I have depended on your daily posts the past few weeks, but this one has been the best.
I just Thank you for helping me thru this most difficult time and want you to know how much I appreciate you. Thank you again, Mrs. Denice Hord. Not many people relate to my difficulties, leaving me feeling lonely. Most of the times I feel so unloved and uncared for. So I turn to the web to find inspiration and comfort. I know I will make it.
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This too shall pass. I guess during any stressful event at my personal or professional space… the thought that makes me move or switch my mind is the wonderful time I have everyday with my child… She makes me forget by simply making me fully involved in her playful work. The article is extremely good. I m passing a difficult relationship. I want to end it.
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